In the life of any married couple, and sometimes young people who are not married, there comes a moment when you want something new in the intimate sphere. And if there is no desire to change your partner, thereby destroying relationships, there is a way out.
Why do you need diversity? And it makes you want more. Then the time comes when young people get closer and start living together found in friends, fishing, games, and women - in karaoke or cafes. But if nothing changes in sex, even a break from each other will not be a way out of the situation. Men are more inclined to polygamy, they look at others more often women. But they are not far behind the male gender: if the partner is bored, even the most modest and loving housewives begin to think about it. Diversity means to look at the partner from another side. And let the body remain the same, but the emotions will be completely different , — this is what is important in maintaining a relationship.
Ways to diversify intimate life
Many people's fantasy regarding such an important issue is limited only to games with dressing up as other characters. In fact, everything is much more subtle and interesting than it might seem at first glance. The most popular and effective methods of diversity in the sexual sphere are:
- Together viewing of films rated 18+. It is worth starting at least with this. Thus, each of the partners will learn a little more about each other, and the films should be selected on different topics. Yes, there is something that both do not perceive, but there is also something that both will like, and then it can be implemented;
- Erotic lingerie. This applies not only to women, but also to men. Underwear of different styles opens the partner's body from a different viewing angle, and it turns you on more than just undressing naked;
- Striptease. This action is again intended for both sexes. You can include monetary incentives in the game, or you can arrange a whole show. Erotic music and smooth movements will leave few people indifferent;
- Oral and anal sex. At least one new type of intercourse is simply necessary to maintain variety;
- Toys from a specialty store. It is best to make a trip to the sex shop together, and if there is general shyness, you can consider the products on the website and order delivery. In any case, you should not miss the opportunity to please yourself and your partner with new sensations; Sex in an unusual place. It can be an elevator, a balcony, a tent, a park and any other places where courage and imagination are enough. Extreme sensations are guaranteed, but do not forget about possible witnesses with cameras;
- Messages on the phone about the desire for sex at work or in an unexpected place. In this case, we mean small stories about what the partner wants at this very moment, how much and what he is willing to do for it. This is an interesting practice that often leads to new discoveries and an immediate desire to get a partner right now;
- Provocative actions. Someone can show off in the same underwear around the apartment, actively bending over, someone can snuggle up to their partner from behind when he is busy with ordinary things - everything is limited by imagination and the environment. It ignites passion through an unexpected rush;
- BDSM. Even if it is not that strict action with rules, it can hurt a little - slapping and squeezing different parts of the body in tandem with the pleasure received will bring no less new sensations. It's practically like a sweet and sour sauce;
- New positions and words during intercourse. Kamasutra will be a great way to start, and then you can invent something of your own and taste it. And words are what the partner wants to hear in the process, maybe they will be insults, maybe gentle whispers;
- Erotic massage, exploration of new points of pleasure. More lubrication and desire, and you can also let your partner show what and how exactly he wants with his hands. This will lead many people astray, although it may seem foolish at first.
General recommendations
It is forbidden to shy away. This is a categorically wrong behavior tactic, if it is provided by the game. Uncertainty can spoil everything that was planned;
You can't force your partner. This can end in an insult at best and a breakup at worst;
Alcohol for the first practices can help relax. But you should not get carried away, otherwise there is a risk of falling asleep or overdoing something.
There should also be a mood for variety. It is worth organizing a little romance, and the partner will already be more receptive to the new and unusual;
Conversation is the key to everything. Constant interest in desires, what is happening in the process, what is liked and what is not wanted, will lead to mutual understanding, which is often lacking in couples. Sexual diversity is an integral part of successful relationships. You should not be afraid of the new, you need to experiment and try, otherwise you will never know what it is and how many sensations it could bring.