In the life of any married couple, and sometimes young people, not related to marriage, there comes a time when you want something new in the intimate sphere. And if there is no desire to change your partner, thereby destroying the relationship, there is a way out – sexual diversity.
Why do we need diversity? In those days, when the partners only got to know each other, sympathy arose, then interest and excitement. Any person is attracted by the unknown: what the partner can do, what to surprise, what to show. And this fuels the imagination, you need to desire more constantly.
Then comes the time when young people became friends and began to live together. And if, before cohabitation, the couple was eager to reunite in any place, then after a while thereafter a desire to relax a little from each other. Usually this salvation of young people is found in friends, fishing, games, and women – at girlfriends, in karaoke or cafe. Gossip, discussions, as well as a little distraction from your partner, re-energizes interest. But if nothing changes in sex, then rest from each other will not be a way out of the situation.
Men are more prone to polygamy, they often look at other women. But they do not lag behind the male: if the partner is bored, thoughts of another settling even the most modest and loving housewives. Variety means to look at the partner from the other side, to see his new facets. And let the body remain the same, but the emotions will be completely different – this is what is important in supporting the relationship.
The fantasy of many people who deal with such an important issue is limited only to games with disguise in other characters. In fact, everything is much thinner and more interesting than it might seem at first glance. The most popular and effective methods of diversity of the sexual sphere:
To be shy is forbidden. This is a categorically wrong tactic of behavior, if this is not provided for by the game. Uncertainty can spoil everything that was intended;
You can not force a partner. This can result in resentment at best and parting at worst;
Alcohol for the first practitioner can help relax. But do not get carried away, otherwise there is a risk of falling asleep or overdoing anything.
Mood for a change, too, should be. It is worth organizing a little romance, and the partner will already be more sympathetic to perceive the new and unusual;
Conversation is the key to everything. Constant interest in desires, in what is happening in the process, what one likes and what does not want, will lead to mutual understanding, which is often not enough in pairs.
Sexual diversity is an integral part of a successful relationship. Do not be afraid of the new, you need to experiment and try, otherwise you will never know what it is and how many sensations it could bring.